My littlest just came inside crying because his big brother hit his ball away from him while he was playing with it. I asked BB to apologize, which he did and he asked LB to come swing with him. LB says no. BB says 'If you don't come play with me, I won't let you play with my Rokenbok anymore' and off they run playing together nicely...
Do I say that sort of thing? Probably. Sigh... I have to be careful what I do they're definitely picking up too much! LOL